Tuesday Train Ride: The value was so much greater than the cost
I took a spontaneous trip back to Raleigh with my daughter last night
She was home for just one night
For a weekend after Thanksgiving
For time with family
It wasn’t enough time
It wasn’t enough time for her to recharge
It wasn’t enough time for me to love on her
To fill her cup
Trying to get on the road to be home by 8pm
Reluctant to leave
Leaving on a Monday around 4:30 pm
So much traffic…
I sat in her room
As she packed up to head home
Reluctant to leave
Leaving on a Monday around 4:30 pm
So much traffic…
I sat in her room
As she packed up to head home
I listened to her
I was a shoulder to cry on
As she vented and stressed about returning to her place
Hugs
Then, I had an idea…
The train!
In 30 minutes I managed to:
Locate a train for the next day
She could drop me off on her way to work
I could take the 10am train home
“But Mom, I have to leave for work by 8am”
I can hang out at the train station
It’s a beautiful train station with comfortable places to sit
I had taken a train back home several months ago
It was a Friday evening train
It was crowded and my first time ever riding
An Amtrak Train
Tuesday, mid-morning
That should be easy!
I packed an overnight bag
Last minute trip
No time to worry
Limit my luggage to carryon bag and back pack
I was focused and got it done
My husband got food together for us
We loaded her car and were on the road at 5pm
Half a tank of gas
“I got home on half a tank, it should be enough”
I had a feeling we would need gas
She talked and I drove
Driving my old civic
The car we gave her when her Subaru became unreliable
Lively and engaged in conversation
Much different mood than an hour before in her room
Low gas warning light
She found a station with low price with Gas Buddy
As I filled the car with gas
A woman in a red Camry asked me for help
She was lost and out of gas
She wanted directions
I did not know my way around
My phone!
I used my navigation app
To enter the address of where she needed to go
I read to her what it said
She looked lost and confused
“Please help me” she repeated
I asked my daughter to write down the directions
She asked for a few dollars for gas
I dug in my wallet knowing I had no cash
Between the two of us, we only had coins
My credit card!
I offered to fill up her car with some gas
“Thank you”
She was so grateful
She was parked too far from the tank
And parked with the wrong side facing the tank
She struggled to drive between my car and another
To turn her car around to pull up to the tank
I wanted to offer to drive the car for her
I chuckled at the situation
“Are you laughing at me?”
Amused by the situation and happy
Happy that I could help her
I told her I wouldn’t have helped if she had been a man
And she understood and agreed
Happy to help her out
Knowing her feeling of being lost
And out of gas
I had been in a situation as a 23 year old
At night driving home without my wallet
Turned the wrong way and was so low on gas
It was 1993 and I had no cell phone
I imagined I would need to stop at a gas station and beg for a dollar to fill up my tank…
Wow
I did not have to stop that night
I made it back to my apartment
Here I was almost 30 years later
Helping someone else in a similar situation
My daughter and I were happy that we took the time too help
I heard her ask someone else for directions as I filled her car
She was headed to the hospital
I was even more grateful that I was able to help her
She had found someone who would help her
To let her follow them to get her back on the right road
To get to the hospital
I never asked where she was going and why
My daughter and I enjoyed time together at her house
Watching our favorite TV show
And then off to bed to get up by 6:30 am
She has a spare room in the house she rents with a friend
It has been convenient for us to visit and stay with her
It feels so good to be there for her
When she needs us
To spontaneously pack a bag
And drive her home