I want to break free
Queen inspires this post
I want to break free of old patterns.
Of old ways of surviving
I want to return to thriving,
To living life rather than getting by
I lived in a world of highs and lows
I lived in a world of depression and hypomania
I learned to survive that way
I pushed through the depression and got through the days
I thrived in hypomania, found my true self and prospered
I knew even when I feel, that I could bounce up again
Now we have taken away the upswing
“You are high functioning with depression”
that is w hat my doctor said
Maybe if you compare me to others
But to me, I feel barely alive with my depression
I feel like I am struggling to get through
I may look like I am functioning
But am I?
Is spending hours each day on phone app games and streaming tv functioning?
Missing appointments and not following through with phone calls from doctors
Wanting to exercise but not doing it
Wanting to engage more with my family, but not managing to do more than discus television shows
Making a step forward every once in a while
And then not making steps forward for a while
Being emotionally withdrawn even from myself
Not writing
And not doing what I love
To me that is
not functioning
I make it to work, most of the time
Until I get sick and getting better is extra difficulty
I eat meals and manage to be sure everyone get fed, with my husband’s help
My husband helps a lot…
Grocery shopping, cleaning, home maintenance, getting kids to places, taking care of our pets
Growing our new business and continuing his practice
Today, I made a phone call.
I got a hold of my son’s doctor to straighten out a prescription.
I have many more things on my to do list
My should have gotten done weeks ago…list
I need to take it one small step at a time
I made that phone call this morning
It was even still morning
Tomorrow, I can make another phone call.
Tomorrow, I can write another blog
Maybe I can write my way into a new life
Nothing else has worked long enough to keep me going more than a few months
I can try this
I can write