Beach Memories: 15 years of family fun with Blue Green
Twenty-four years ago today, my first child was born. It’s 6:30 in the morning as I write this post, watching the sunrise over Myrtle Beach, I remember heading to the hospital in the early morning hours November 10, 1997.
Such excitement for a young couple to bring a human being into this world. I see our house as we pulled in the driveway at 5612 Trotters Ridge Road. We enter a decorated entranceway, courtesy of our wonderful neighbors, Brian and Cindy. I was hungry and wished I had gotten a lunch at the hospital before we left. Our baby boy had cried most of the way home and I sat and nursed him as my husband fed me lunch. I was 28 years old.
I have enjoyed several birthdays at the beach over the years and this year I am here for my son’s birthday. Unfortunately he could only stay through last night because he is needed at work today. It’s a crazy time of the year for a manager working in retail. He began working part-time at Best Buy six years ago, just after his 18th birthday. He shared birthday celebrations with me joining us at the beach for 3 days.
I remember our first family beach trip. Harrison was 9 and Abby was 5. I can still see their excitement as we walked to the beach and they played in the water, the run-off water that drains at the beach. I didn’t realize that is what it was at the time. We had a free stay courtesy of Blue Green. We had no intentions of purchasing a time share that weekend. I am so glad “I caved” as my husband tells me, despite paying too much for our time share, we have had so many wonderful vacations together over the past 15 years.
Our first grand adventure we went to Florida in March of 2008. We stopped in Savana and had lunch and then stayed a night in Jacksonville. We went to St. Augustine the next day as I was eager to see the statue that inspired the name La Leche, an organization that helped me connect with my baby and continue to nurse when I returned to work 12 weeks after he was born. I later became a La Leche League leader, helping other moms on their journey with breastfeeding. I treasure that time in my life and all the amazing women I met. La Leche League introduced me to attachment parenting and a new way of life. I met my first homeschooling parent at one of the early meetings. It was the evening group I began attending in preparation for returning to work.
Here we were 9 years after I attended that first LLL meeting, a family of 4 at Ormond Beach Florida staying in the beautiful BlueGreen resort. Such excitement for our first full-fledged family vacation, one that did not involve visiting family.
We sat on the beach and dug a sand chair and splashed in the ocean. It was really windy and I was upset that cars were allowed to drive on the beach. If feels like a life time ago and it was a time before OCD wrecked havoc on our life. I had a cell phone but that is all it was. If I took pictures, they are in a box somewhere. I had not yet joined Facebook.
We have not returned to Florida but have enjoyed many visits to Myrtle and North Myrtle Beach. Two summers ago, my and the kids enjoyed a few nights in the mountains of Virginia in the luxury yurt! I had dreamed of staying in the yurt since I first thumbed through the BlueGreen Vacation Book.
I guess our first trip with all three of my children was in the summer of 2009. We went first for a few nights to visit with the Grothoff side of the family where several of my in-laws were staying for a week. I think we returned in September as I recall pictures of a young Lexi sitting in the sand and I know we went in September of 2011. Most of the trips were for two or three nights. October 2019 we enjoyed 5 nights at North Myrtle to celebrate my 50th birthday.
I am talking dates and places yet in my head swirl all the memories…
The across the lazy river challenge, my two older children using the inflatable tubes to get across the pavement
Collecting sea shells and our last day walk on the beach tradition
Lexi standing on the beach “water bending”
Tossing a ball in the pool
Building sandcastles and sand chairs and a sandman
Lost buckets and shovels and ordering new ones
Standing in the water as the waves crashed against us and I held dearly to my children through excitement and giggles
Shopping adventures and picking out refrigerator magnets for our collection
Hard Rock Cafe in Florida and California Pizza in South Carolina
Monopoly
I almost forgot about Monopoly games both at the beach and New Year’s Eve at home
Returning from a walk along the beach with Abby to a decorated room to celebrate my birthday.
Dancing on the table with Don
Listening to music and dancing through the balcony doorways
Many of these images are captured in digital form and likely why I remember them so well.
I also tend to remember things very clearly when I write about them and as I think about that fact, I wish I had done more writing during these wonderful trips together.
It has been wonderful to have the past three days with all six of us. I will close with the memories of this birthday beach trip.
Harrison stopping the bubbling over seltzer coming up his straw and watching the seltzer fly out his nose
Walking along the pier and Lexi naming the seagulls, sand pipers and Pelicans
The pelican sitting in the middle of the pier surrounded by people
People laughing as a sand piper stole the food that someone through down for the pelican
Learning a new game together, Betrayal at Hill House, fighting our doppelgängers
Harrison figuring out the chair lift to lower Kai/ Liz into the hot tub
Harrison and I helping Kai/Liz walk along the beach back to their wheelchair.
Abby and I perusing the Gay Dolphin shop on the Myrtle Beach Board Walk.
Uno Flip
Carrying lasagna from our room around the corner to the second room where Harrison, Kai and Abby were staying
Kai capturing photos of Harrison’s silliness opening his gifts
Don’s stress relief instruction card
Dammit Doll
WTF memo pad
Jelly Beans and Taffy
Large candy cane and a glass taco ornament
Wooden puzzle block puzzle, we never did check that one out and I am quite curious about it
Exploring the mystery of the Gay Dolphin and all its levels
Watching sunset from the balcony
Walking on the beach at sunset with Harrison
Enjoying Harrison’s drone pictures of the ocean
Watching 911 in Abby’s room
The one where Chimney travels to find Maddie and
Athena’s son deals with his trauma of being kidnapped
Grocery shopping with Harrison, another tradition, but somehow I forgot about the silliness that we usually enjoyed while shopping
Don, Lexi and I enjoying a morning walk along the beach
My solo walks along the beach and dancing in the water as the pigeons watched my shoes
Because I asked the pigeons to watch my shoes
Walking along the boardwalk with Abby and showing her Sea Glass Tower and the 20th floor where I stayed both times I traveled to the beach alone
Enjoying home made muffins with tea on the balcony with Lexi
The sun in my eyes
November 7-10, 2021 at Horizons at 77th